Note: due to the success of my first article Do You Have Self-Limiting Beliefs About Money? I thought I would follow-up with another post on self-limiting beliefs about debt.
In my previous article I discussed three common beliefs that will either put you in debt or keep you there. The beliefs that…
- Making more money is the only way to get out of debt.
- Taking out a loan is the only way to buy a vehicle.
- Not being very good with money is why you’re in debt.
All of these self-limiting beliefs have one thing in common they are false. If you believe them you’re probably hindering your ability to become financially independent.
A Quick Re-cap On What Self-limiting Beliefs Are?
Self-limiting beliefs are beliefs that are established during childhood, through our work experiences, life events or relationships with friends and family. The beliefs are generally opinion based rather than fact based, or are a result of a lack of understanding on the specific topic. As time goes on these beliefs are reinforced by our individual emotions and behaviors, so the beliefs become stronger even though they may not be completely accurate.
Centuries ago the belief that the world was flat kept sailors confined to their own geographic locations – they only ventured out on to the ocean as far as they could see. The fear of falling off the edge of the earth limited their ability to explore, and to experience different cultures and continents. Of course the world isn’t flat and once this belief was demystified Christopher Columbus discovered America (at least that’s what my history book said)
On a lighter note, and a bit more 21st century, when we are children the fear of the “boogeyman” and things that go “bump in the night” represent real fears and threats, our first experience with self-limiting beliefs.
When you were growing up how often did you jump from the bed to avoid being grabbed by the mythical beast lurking underneath? Or maybe you made sure the closet door was closed so that whatever was in there couldn’t get out. Or like me you took the 100% failsafe option and just left the lights on.
Of course over time we learn that the boogeyman is only a figment of our imagination and we overcome the fear, because we learn to think realistically and differently about the belief. Of course mom and dad helped reinforce the right emotions and behaviors to help us overcome the beliefs.
Whether your Christopher Columbus or a child trying to overcome the fear of the dark, at the time those beliefs can be pretty powerful and unless their clarified they can keep you from moving forward.
When it comes to money and your personal finances, the outcome of some self-limiting beliefs can be detrimental. Your beliefs about money may keep you in debt, not allow you to save money or keep you from making more money. Overcoming these beliefs can be the difference between financial success or staying stuck in your current situation.
In addition to the three self-limiting beliefs I covered in my first article here are two more that can negatively impact your ability to get out of debt.
There is Plenty of Time
This self-limiting belief is typically prevalent when we are younger and less experienced with money. It’s a perspective that somewhere down the road we will make more money, correct our spending habits and then get out of debt.
If you’re in debt, “plenty of time” allows you to forego the uncomfortable process of being frugal or feeling like you’re having to give something up to work your way out of debt.
At the end of the day, “plenty of time” is about procrastinating.
However, if you can kick this self-limiting belief to the curb and take an approach, that although you have plenty of time, you want to make the most of it. And making the most of it isn’t just about saving money or making more money rather it’s a way of improving your overall lifestyle.
If you’re in credit card debt you already know you’re paying interest charges that are probably blowing your budget and forcing you to spend more of the money you don’t have.
However, beyond the money your debt is probably creating a whole bunch of stress and limiting your ability to really do the things you want to do. Debt impacts your emotional well-being, your ability to move forward in a career, relationships and how and where you live.
Being able to shift this self-limiting belief from one of “there’s plenty of time” to a belief that is more immediate and has a sense of urgency, something like – I am sick of all this debt and I want to get rid of it NOW!
It’s about looking beyond the negative financial impacts debt has and thinking about the other areas of your life that will be positively impacted when your debt free – your confidence level, your behaviors, the other facets of your life.
- 11 Reasons to Pay Off Debt and Save Money.
- So You Have Self-Limiting Beliefs About Money?
- How to Pay Off Debt Using the Snowball Method.
It Will Take Me Forever to Pay Off My Debt
Combine “forever” with “debt” and this self-limiting belief can single handedly suck any positive emotions you may have right out the window. And leave you thinking, why even try and get out of debt. Why even try to get started.
This self-limiting belief works like this. As you make your monthly payments on your debt you regularly see what you’re paying per month, the balance left to pay and the interest rate you’re paying In your mind you do the math and realize it’s going to take forever to pay it off.
If you have $5,000 in credit card debt and are making a minimum payment of $50 per month, in your mind you calculate it will take at least 100 months to pay off the debt ($5,000/50, excluding interest) – that’s over eight years.
If you received $100 off the purchase of a new TV that would be great, if you won $100 from a lottery ticket that would be awesome, if you live to be 100 even better.
100 months to pay off your debt – not so good. In your mind 100 = Forever.
Fortunately, this is a self-limiting belief can be easily overcome if you look at it from a different perspective.
First, understand that regardless of how you got into debt, debt is never a lifetime sentence. You just have to be realistic about what you’re trying to accomplish. You can’t spend five years racking up credit card debt and expect to pay it off in two months. It will take some time, but it’s not forever. Setting the right expectation for yourself when your tackling debt is an important aspect of staying motivated through the process.
Second, understand the facts about paying off debt and how you can expedite the process of becoming debt free. For example, if you can pay more than the $50 minimum per month, here is the impact on $5,000 of debt.
- Pay $100/month = pay off the balance in 50 months
- Pay $125/month = pay off the balance in 40 months
- Pay $150/month = pay off the balance in 33 months
- Pay $200/month = pay off the balance in 25 months
To keep it simple I have not included interest charges in this example, however the impact to expediting your debt payoff is the same. Pay more than the minimum and it decreases the years to pay off the balance. Calculate your debt pay off here.
As a means of expediting the payoff of debt I highly recommend using the Snowball Method. It’s simple to understand, provides an emotional boost as you make progress and it debunks the “It will take me forever to pay off my debt” self-limiting belief.
Both of these self-limiting beliefs have a tendency to work together and inevitably create an environment where even getting started on your debt pay off plan can be a challenge. They lead to procrastination, frustration and are an emotional brain drain.
However, keep this in perspective. Many have fallen into the debt trap and worked their way out and created their own financial independence – you will to. Don’t let these self-limiting beliefs keep you from getting started.
- Debt Pay Off Calculator
- Credit Sesame – Free credit monitoring service
- FTP eBook Series – The step-by-step guide to successful money management.
How do you overcome self-limiting beliefs? Comment below.